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Movies That Explore Emotions, Personal Growth, and Masculinity

Written by: Anel Martínez

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That movies not only entertain is a fact, but some people claim that they have the power to transform, inspire and even create a space to reflect on issues that may have never been raised before. And the power of a well narrated story has no limits! For many people, film is a way to connect with their most human side, question traditional gender roles and rethink aspects such as their purpose in life, or simply find motivation to overcome the challenges of everyday (or not so routine) life.


Surely now you are curious to see one of those movies that change your mind, but the list of recommendations on the internet is endless and we want to make your job easier. That's why, in this article, we are going to dedicate a space to the movies that can most influence your life, highlighting titles ideal for every mood and those with messages full of deep reflections, some related to what it means to be a man today.

Do Movies Influence Men’s Lives?

Movies have the ability to act as mirrors of our emotions and experiences. As we mentioned earlier, a good story can help us explore aspects of our identity and our decisions that we had silenced. In particular, cinema offers a space to question the traditional models of masculinity that have long defined how men “should” be. There are some perfect films to reflect on friendship, family, self-improvement, and even masculinity, encouraging self-discovery. These stories offer an opportunity to connect with emotions that are sometimes not easily expressed in everyday life.



In addition, cinema is a very powerful tool to understand other perspectives and realities. Surely you too have seen a movie or two that depicts characters you identify with and makes you reflect on your relationship with success, failure and life challenges. Because movies, beyond entertaining and escaping us, are like an emotional compass that guide and inspire us, and a way to reflect and to question certain aspects of life.

Is There a Movie for Every Mood?


Definitely, yes. Cinema encompasses a variety of genres and offers us something for every moment of life and emotional state. For example, if you're looking to laugh and relax after a stressful day, you can turn to comedies, such as Something About Mary. If you need introspection, you can pull deep dramas and what better in that case than Manchester by the Sea.


There are movies that you start watching with no expectations and they change your mind, like The Secret in Their Eyes. If you're feeling drained or apathetic, you can always count on a long list of overcoming stories, have you seen Chain of Favors yet. And finally, if you're in an existential crisis, there are a number of stories full of messages that push you and encourage you to keep going, such as Life of Pi.

However, is there one that makes you feel better all around?

Movies That Instantly Boost Your Mood


When things don't seem to be going well, there are certain movies that have an almost magical effect to lift your spirits. And we can't ignore the effect of movies like Forrest Gump, which not only bring a smile to your face, but is also a life lesson in itself.


But if you think it's the only movie that brings together history, comedy, drama and inspiration, you're wrong. Titles like Life is Beautiful combine humor and sensitivity, leaving a sense of hope even in the most difficult circumstances. 

Motivational Movies We Recommend


We've already previewed a few titles, but you've probably already seen most of them (or all of them if you're a film buff). So, if you're still looking for inspiration, don't worry, we bring you stories of struggle, perseverance and success to show you that you can face adversity with determination. Sometimes we need to be reminded that many of our limits are self-imposed and we are capable of more.



Did you think we were going to recommend you to watch Rocky or The Untamed Will Hunting? We assume you've already seen them several times! But have you seen The Pacific Warrior? This story based on true events, will make you see the importance of the present and the connection between mind and body. And if that's not enough, you can always watchThe Constant Gardener, which is not only motivational, but also a brutal reflection on sacrifice and truth. And, although there are many options, if we had to choose the most iconic motivational movie, it would be The Pursuit of Happyness. Starring Will Smith, it has a message of hope and effort that resonates with all men who seek purpose in life while reminding them that, although the road may be difficult, the sacrifices are worth it.

Why Is Cinema Important for Reflecting on Masculinity?


Sometimes we don't realize it, but stereotypes of what a man “should” be like affect us more than we think. That model of the always strong, invulnerable, successful and self-confident man seems like something out of a movie, but not real life. Living under that pressure can make many men feel disconnected from their emotions, as if showing vulnerability is synonymous with failure. The funny thing is, by freeing ourselves from those rigid ideas, we not only grow as people, but our relationships become more authentic, closer and much healthier. And who doesn't want to feel freer to simply be who they are?


Fortunately, in recent years, numerous directors and screenwriters have begun to incorporate what are known as “new masculinities” or “egalitarian masculinities.” These represent a model in which men can feel free to express their feelings and be authentic, without questioning their identity or value as people. A more human and closer reflection of what it means to be a man.



That is where cinema has an important role to play. It is that window that, between history and emotions, can show us new ways of understanding what it means to be a man. Films that present us with male characters who cry, who doubt, who lose themselves and search for something beyond the typical success, teach us that vulnerability is not only valid, but also powerful. In the end, cinema not only entertains us, it also helps us to reflect, to question what we take for granted and, why not, to inspire us to be more authentic. And that is something that always deserves applause.


Our Top 3 Reflective Movies for Men


We can’t end this article without mentioning films that have allowed us to question deep aspects of masculinity, since men's health care, especially in the intimate sphere, has been a historically ignored topic. However, some films have given voice to these issues, breaking taboos and raising awareness about the importance of talking about these topics. Here are three films that address the stigma and invisibility of men's health:


  • Dallas Buyers Club: this drama immerses us in one man's struggle with HIV and perfectly highlights how prejudice and lack of information compound the suffering of those facing serious illness. The film is a reminder of the importance of questioning the silence around health issues that could affect us all.



  • Philadelphia: While focusing much of its narrative on sexual orientation discrimination, this film also reflects how men face multiple societal barriers to speaking openly about their health and seeking support.



  • The Sessions: this film approaches male sexuality with intimacy and respect, breaking down the stigma around disability and sexual needs. It is a thought-provoking work about the importance of recognizing and caring for all aspects of men's health.



As you will see, these films not only expose important issues that are still current, but also inspire all men to reflect on the need to take care of our well-being in all its dimensions, from the physical to the emotional.

Finally, there are films that directly question masculinity or gender roles such as American History X, The Pursuit of Happynessor Fight Club, which address different aspects of male identity and the internal struggle that many men experience.

Final Thoughts: Cinema as a Tool for Change


Movies remind us that being a man isn’t a fixed label—it’s a journey of learning, reflection, and self-discovery. Whether by questioning masculinity, inspiring us to overcome challenges, or encouraging us to prioritize our physical and emotional health, these films open doors to a more fulfilling and positive understanding of who we are.


It’s time to enjoy and reflect on these stories that go far beyond the screen!

Anel Martínez

Author:  Anel Martínez (Sexual Coach at MYHIXEL)