The 10 Sex Hacks You Didn’t Know You Needed

We’ve all been through moments when sex starts to feel routine, mechanical, or predictable. But with a few small adjustments, tricks, and discoveries, it’s possible to completely transform the erotic experience . It’s not about big secrets. In fact, it’s about putting into practice things we already know but often don’t try due to lack of experience or confidence.

That’s why in this article, I’m bringing you a selection of sex hacks you probably didn’t know you needed. And once you try them, you won’t want to go without . So, if you're ready to take your sex life (and your partner’s) to the next level, stick around until the end.

1. Use Pillows to Improve Penetration

You don’t need special furniture or sex props to find the perfect angle. A pillow (or several) under the hips can allow for deeper penetration , better G-spot or prostate stimulation , and reduced lower back strain. Sometimes, simply playing with height and positioning makes a bigger difference than you'd expect.

2. Spooning... But in Reverse

We all know the classic spooning position, but flip it around: if the receiving partner leans slightly forward while the other partner comes in from behind with their torso pressed close, it intensifies contact, control, and genital friction. Perfect for slow, deep sex with lots of body contact. Have you tried it yet?

3. Lube in the Shower: The Kind That’s Water-Compatible

Many people fantasize about having sex in the shower. And it does sound appealing until you realize that water is lube’s worst enemy. That’s why, if you want to fully enjoy an intimate encounter under running water, I recommend using a silicone-based lubricant . It doesn’t wash away with water and provides better glide, especially when it comes to anal play or when your body needs a little extra help.

4. The “Edging” Technique for More Intense Orgasms

This technique involves stimulating yourself (alone or with a partner) until you're close to orgasm, then stopping right before reaching it . You can repeat this cycle several times . It leads to a buildup of arousal that can result in a much more powerful climax when you finally let go. Plus, it helps improve climax and ejaculation control and shifts the focus of sex from the goal to the journey.

If you want to start practicing edging but feel like you don’t yet have control over your body (and climax too quickly), I recommend  MYHIXEL Control  . It’s a program developed by sexual health experts that helps men train through guided masturbation. It includes a device that feels incredibly realistic, the interior is anatomically accurate and features both warming and vibration.

5. Play with Temperatures

An ice cube on the tongue or a warm spoon against the skin can create contrasts that awaken the senses. That’s why I recommend exploring areas like the neck, nipples, thighs, or lower abdomen . The hot-cold contrast activates highly sensitive nerve receptors. Have you tried erotic candles yet? There’s a whole world of sensation waiting to be discovered…

6. Create a Playlist That’s Not Just Sexy, but Rhythmic

Choose music with a rhythm that matches your movements. It doesn’t all have to be slow . There’s something powerful about syncing the rhythm of sex to a steady beat since it makes the whole experience more immersive . In fact, some studies have shown that music enhances sexual arousal and helps focus attention on pleasure (Labbé, 2007).

7. Use Mirrors to Play with Visual Arousal

For many, seeing their own or their partner’s body in action can feel awkward or trigger insecurity. But for others, it can be an intense source of arousal. If you’re part of that second group (or want to be), take note: if you don’t have a full-length mirror, try using the closet mirror, the bathroom mirror, or even recording yourselves (with consent) to enjoy later. Desire is often sparked through what we see.

8. Swap the Bed for the Floor or the Couch

Sometimes it’s not about new positions, it’s about new settings. That’s why many couples choose to take sex out of the bed to reignite desire. For instance, the floor (with a soft rug) or the couch offers different support points that change the body's dynamic and can refresh the entire experience.

9. Masturbate Differently Than Usual

If you usually use your dominant hand, try switching to the other. If you always watch porn, try doing it using only your imagination. The key here is to change the rhythm, pressure, location, or context to open yourself up to new sensations and a deeper understanding of your body.

There are also many people who choose to incorporate sex toys , whether during solo play or with a partner. From penis rings to all kinds of masturbators. If you're looking for a ring, whether to help maintain an erection or to experience more intense orgasms , I always recommend MYHIXEL Ring . Most rings are round, which can put pressure on the urethra and make ejaculation difficult or even painful. MYHIXEL Ring, on the other hand, has an ergonomic design that lets you climax comfortably and without any issues.

10. Use a Safe Word to Pause, Switch, or Stop Without Killing the Mood

One of the most valuable lessons we can learn from BDSM is the importance of consent and communication. Having a word that signals "I need to slow down" or "let’s pause for a moment"—without breaking the mood—helps keep communication flowing. As mentioned earlier, these kinds of safety words or signals are especially helpful during more intense play, BDSM scenarios, or simply when there’s a bit of nervousness involved.

Conclusion: Pleasure Is in the Details

You don’t need to change partners or buy expensive toys to rediscover desire. Sometimes, what transforms an experience is a detail, a gesture, or an idea you hadn’t tried before. These sex hacks are an invitation to explore, to play, and to reconnect with your body (and your partner’s) through curiosity.

Because when it comes to sex, knowledge (and a good trick) is also power.

References

Labbé, E., Schmidt, N., Babin, J., & Pharr, M. (2007). Coping with stress: the effectiveness of different types of music. Applied psychophysiology and biofeedback, 32(3-4), 163–168.  https://doi.org/10.1007/s10484-007-9043-9