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How to Maintain Good Sexual Health in the Digital Age

Written by: Andrés Suro

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Time to read 5 min

If you're a regular reader, you know that we prioritize men's intimate health. Sexual health is a vital part of overall well-being and shouldn't be overlooked, especially in today's digital world. But what exactly does "digital age" mean?


With the rise of technology and social media, we're living in a time where things change quickly, sometimes too quickly. Unless you're constantly online and part of Generation Z, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed by the flood of information and the pressures around personal image.


Moreover, we can't ignore that sexuality is a cornerstone of our identity, and even though some taboos still exist, people are beginning to talk more openly about its impact on health. Understanding what sexual health is and how to maintain it is crucial for living a fulfilling life, no matter your age. So, are you ready to learn how to take better care of this important aspect of your life?


What is good sexual health?


Let's take it step by step. Do we really know what "sexual health" means? Good sexual health isn't just about being free from diseases or dysfunctions, it also includes your physical, emotional, and mental well-being when it comes to sexuality. For more on this, you can check out another article where we dive into  habits that can significantly improve your sexual health .


And while it might seem obvious, good sexual health involves the ability to enjoy safe and satisfying intimate relationships, free from guilt or shame, with clear communication of desires and boundaries between all parties involved. Yes, taking care of your sexual health also means knowing how to say no when something doesn't appeal to you or when you don't feel 100% comfortable with a particular practice or position. So, with all this in mind, we ask ourselves…


Is sexual health important?


You already know the answer: absolutely. It’s crucial because it directly impacts your quality of life. Good sexual health boosts self-esteem, strengthens relationships, and helps prevent health issues like  sexually transmitted infections (STIs)  and sexual dysfunctions.


In today’s digital age, where information is at our fingertips, it might seem like ignorance or misinformation wouldn’t be a problem anymore, but the statistics tell a different story. That’s why it’s more important than ever to stay informed and develop healthy habits (like the ones we've previously recommended).


What factors affect sexual health? 


There are many factors that can influence sexual health, both positively and negatively. We've already discussed good habits, so here’s a list of things you should avoid:


What can negatively impact your sexual health?

  1.  Physical issues : Such as  erectile dysfunction  or  premature ejaculation .

  2.  Psychological factors : Including stress,  anxiety , or poor communication in your relationship.

  3.  Exposure to misinformation or unrealistic expectations on social media : This can skew your perception of your own sexuality.

  4.  Unhealthy lifestyle choices :Habits like excessive drinking, smoking, or an unhealthy diet can put your sexual health at risk.

What factors affect sexual health?

How to maintain good intimate health?


Maintaining good sexual health in the digital age starts with practicing  proper intimate hygiene . Educating yourself about sexuality can help break down taboos and empower you to make informed decisions, allowing you to enjoy your experiences without worry. Open and honest communication with your partner is key—talking openly about your desires can help you both better  understand and meet each other's needs . However, it's also important to have a good relationship with yourself. To foster this, we can cultivate a full  awareness of our bodies .


Improving our relationship with our bodies


Social media has come under scrutiny for how it affects our perception of our bodies. This has led to a growing number of young people struggling with self-esteem and body image issues , including body dysmorphia—a condition where individuals become overly fixated on perceived flaws in their appearance. But why does this happen?

  1. Idealized beauty standards: Filters, edited photos, and selfie culture create pressure to always look "perfect."

  2. Constant social comparison : The endless stream of images of celebrities and influencers, along with the need for social validation, makes us more dependent on others' opinions.

  3. Reinforcement of stereotypes : Whether through gender norms, like extreme thinness for women or excessive muscularity for men, or the latest beauty trends, the pressure to meet these ideals is constantly increasing, leading to greater dissatisfaction with our bodies.

That's why we're living in a time where  self-care  has become an essential concept. This, of course, includes  regular medical check-ups , especially when it comes to men's health, to detect and address any potential issues early on. It's also advisable to take a proactive approach in seeking solutions, such as using treatments or  solutions  that can help  improve sexual function  when needed. And no, contrary to what many believe, a fulfilling sexual life isn't limited to being in a relationship.  You can have a very active intimate life while being single! 


How to have a more active sex life


While we've discussed how aspects of social media and apps can negatively impact your body image, it's important to recognize that not everything social media offers is harmful.


In fact, there are some fantastic accounts that provide fitness routines, nutrition advice, and wellness tips that are accessible to everyone. However, not all content is created equal. The first step we recommend is to check who is behind these accounts. Are they fitness professionals? What kind of training do they have in nutrition and dietetics? What do they know about intimate wellness?


If they pass the professionalism check, the next step is to determine whether these profiles align with what you're looking for and match your level of commitment. This is crucial, as some accounts might demand time and dedication that you may not be able to commit to.


But if you prefer a simpler approach and want an account that meets all these criteria and adapts to different situations, we recommend following our profile on social media. There, you'll find a wide range of recommendations on general and intimate health and wellness.

And remember: having a more active and satisfying sex life isn't just about the frequency of sexual encounters; it's also about their quality.

How to have more active sex

Final Thoughts


To maintain good sexual health in the digital age, it’s essential to commit to a combination of education, communication, and self-care. Technology can be a valuable ally, giving you access to quality information and helpful resources to enhance your sexual well-being. However, it’s equally important to be discerning and cautious about the information you consume, steering clear of misinformation and unrealistic expectations that could negatively impact your sexual health.


Sexual well-being is a fundamental part of overall health, and dedicating time and effort to it is an investment in our quality of life. Ultimately,  knowledge and care are the best tools for preserving and improving our sexual health .

Andrés Suro

Author: Andrés Suro  (Sexual Coach at MYHIXEL)


Psychologist specialized in the social area and expert in sexology applied to education.