Men’s pleasure points: discover your body as a couple
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Time to read 9 min
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Time to read 9 min
Did you know that men have something similar to a G-spot ? It is called the P-spot and is located in the rectum where you can access the prostate internally in an area that is particularly sensitive to sexual stimulation and arousal.
This may not be new for many men. But what if I told you this is not the only part of the body capable of generating these pleasurable sensations? Yes, it is true, so pay attention to what we are going to tell you about them.
The pleasure points are parts of the body that have a special sexual awakening when stimulated.
It is true that there are parts of the body that tend to be more sensitive than others due to the number of nerve endings. Although there is a physiological component, we cannot ignore. Our mind plays an important role determining whether these pleasure points “activate or deactivate”. In fact, many of these parts are only “awakened” when doing other type of sex instead of penetration.
So, are there universal erogenous zones for all men? Can we classify them? How can we stimulate them? We have the answers.
Well, let’s be honest: there are erogenous points that we know a lot better than others, we are aware of that. They are classified in two types, primary points , the most “popular”, and secondary points , which are not so much explored. We will leave the most “unexplored” ones later… for the more adventurous ones.
When we talk about primary points, we are refering zones that are directly related to sexual activity , such as the genitals , and they are usually common to all men:
These zones tend to have a great amount of potential to increase pleasure . Not all men will experience the same type of gratification. These points are very subjective and depend on the individual. In fact, although they are not considered “primary” points, some men reach orgasm through direct stimulation.
These erogenous zones can be explored individually or with a companion. But to make your life easier, we have some ideas for you to practice with in company . If you are interested in exploring a specific point, share these ideas with your partner.
Maybe these are not as well known as the ones we have mentioned, but that does not mean that they are less exciting . Surely some of them will make you enjoy your encounters much more:
It goes without saying that there are no forbidden areas on the body . But it is true that the erogenous points that we are going to discuss below are especially controversial because of their location and the negative burden, since they have been linked from ancient times to taboos and stigmas , but we know it is time to eliminate and overcome them . Here’s why:
What if we combine the erogenous zones? The sensations of these spots can awaken are indescribable . We can stimulate more than one of these points at the same time, for example, massaging the earlobes while we stroke the nipples.
What about trying stimulating the P-spot and masturbating at the same time? This can be especially helpful at first, when you are not yet familiar with the sensations of anal touch.
You already know the different spots and suggestions on how to stimulate them, but although there are key “zones” of pleasure, we don’t want you to lose sight of the power of caresses .
We must keep in mind that there are many ways of stimulation . Caresses are, therefore, a form of affection , intimacy , support and, of course, eroticism .
Incorporating caresses into encounters is essential to explore and get to know our preferences or limits, and to set challenges such as what new practices could be tried. Through caresses, discovering these horizons becomes a whole new experience.
What physical element is usually present from beginning to end? Yes, caresses are usually part of the whole erotic process during sexual encounters in most couples. They are the awakening of desire and the farewell at the end most of the time. Therefore, caresses are as much a part of your sexuality, or more, than penetration.
Our body is a great map that hides authentic treasures of eroticism. And the good thing is that we can discover them alone or with other people . We know that certain areas we have mentioned are pleasurable in themselves, some may feel rejection and others we will want to visit again and again. Maybe it’s also time to add playfulness to your practices, playfulness or even, pain , although we’ll talk about that in detail in another article. In other words, the possibilities are endless. Always remember that you set the limit!